learn about the female body fluids
As I said: before we can start discussing thefemale ejaculation, there are a couple of things you need to know! I will first address the female body fluids in general. I must say that the way the female juices are seen is unfair and I strongly believe that is one of the main reason most women don't yet know the pleasures of squirting - it's usually a mental barrier which you need to overcome. And in order to be able to do so, you need to UNDERSTAND yourself what it is that's going on, and in this article I will discuss a few points that need to be addressed! If you want to learn more on the subject, you can find a more detailed version of this article on the MEMBERS ONLY AREA.
Unfortumately, the society sees all form of liquid that are produced by the female body with great disdain. Females are not allowed to perform any activity that would expose others to their body liquids, and they are perceived as less desirable and feminine if they do. Female body fluids are sometimes considered harmful by many, and (believe it or not) there still are societies out there that are thinking that women menstruating ar the cause of failed crops and dead livestock! Unfortunately this creates a serious impediment to women's sexual pleasure, as the female body fluids are a normal, and more then that, are a necesar part of sex!!!
Regardless of what activity they are participating in, ladies are expected to maintain a dry pristine appearance! Most of you have heard with their own ears mothers telling their daughters not to engage in any sports, or boys will see them as sweaty and disheveled and unatractive. Nowdays, deodorant and antiperspirant ads drive home the idea, "Do not let them see you sweat." Women are bullshited into thinking they needs stronger deodorants, designed specially for them! Even tampon and sanitary napkin advertising usually emphasizes the product's ability to conceal a woman's menstruatio rathen than their primary task of absorbing menses; yet reminding us that women do menstruate. It has come to the point where most women would prefer to have their fingernails ripped out one by one rather than be seen having an "accident" menstruating in public. This is the sad truth... the media and society have come to create a barrier between women and their sexual pleasure.
During all this time, sweaty men are seen as sexual, virile, and their manhood is measured by their ability to produce large quantities of semen. They write their name in the snow with their urine and engage in contests to see who can ejaculate the furthest :) For men making a mess with their ejaculate is seen as unavoidable, normal, and is never questioned. As I'm sure we all know, it is even idolized and usually the hi-point of the vast majority of adult movies. Men can ejaculate on the face (oh yeah), in the mouth (oh YEAAAAH), and on and in the body of their partner and it is seen as normal and desirable. And I'm not saying it's not, IT IS, but the same should go for women! If a woman gets her body fluids on her partner that is another story, she has made a dirty mess. I consider it's not fair to have this double standard! If a man can cover his partner with his body fluids a woman should be able to do the same. DITO!
Female sexuality is blemished by these unwritten laws. The truth is that many women produce relatively large amounts of body fluids during sex, and that happens especially if they are highly aroused for an extended period of time and most of all it happens if and when they experience female ejaculation. Think about it from a female's point of view. Society and even their own mothers have filled their heads with this bullshit, that we discussed... Now you tell me, how HARD is it to relax and enjoy sex, when you are constantly worried about sweating heavily, or about producing too much vaginal lubrication??? You need to realize that women have no control over the release of these body fluids, and that is why some go as far as to avoid sex all together rather than risk being seen as less than feminine by their partner!
It's only logical that before a woman can learn to ejaculate, enjoy ejaculating, and enjoy sex in general she must accept all her bodily fluids as normal. She must not question the nature or quantity of her wetness, be it sweat, vaginal lubrication, menses, ejaculate, or liquid from her bladder. All of these are normal and natural and are a part of any woman's day to day life. There's nothing harmfull, there's nothing bad about them... but how can a lady allow herself to ejaculate and experience potentially earth-shattering orgasms if she cannot let go when the pressure or urge to ejaculate arises??? Women should give themselves permission to get wet and messy. To basically have fun and enjoy sex. And if they don't, you need to step in and help with that before any kind of fun can begin :)
As a result of the taboos concerning female body fluids the main motivation behind the studies into female ejaculation appears to be the determination of whether or not the expelled fluid is from the bladder. Some believe that if a woman ejaculates a liquid that is not from her bladder she is normal, but if is from her bladder then she has a medical problem and is abnormal. Now let me just ask... WHAT THE FUCK? Why the great debate? Who the hell cares where it comes from If my woman gets a thrill out of squirting liquid from her bladder at the moment of orgasm then GREAT! I'm happy for her and for us! How could I take this pleasure away from her? Guys, if your woman squirts liquid from her bladder at the moment of orgasm, LET HER SQUIRT! If she ejaculates uncontrollably, SO BE IT. It is not our place to judge a woman's sexual pleasure! I would be MORE THEN HAPPY if my lady would squirt insanely huge ammount of liquids every time we have sex, cuz that tells me she had a GREAT time, that's she's fulfilled and happy and gonna stick by me all the way!
Keep on reading the free articles, and when you're done stop by the MEMBERS AREA for some ilustrations and what not :) But beware! If you're one of those guys who blames women for releasing their pussy secretions while having sex, then FUCK YOU and GO HOME cuz you're in the wrong place! However, if you're like me and you love a good squirt, then let's move on with the reading, cuz I have more wonderful things to teach you today ;)